26.263 - The Wisdom of a Sustainable Pace

September 2026WisdomReflective Practice
Written By YC

“It has always been time for justice. It has always been time to rest.”

Tricia Hersey, Slowly emerging after a 3 week Sabbath, The Nap Ministry (2020).

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The Thursday meal program never missed a week. Its coordinator had not had a Thursday off in months.

The tension is clear: a service can be dependable for its guests while depending too much on one person's uninterrupted availability.

Tricia Hersey, founder of The Nap Ministry, sharpens that tension. Writing during the Black Lives Matter uprisings and pandemic, she refused a false choice between justice work and rest. Her work is rooted in Black liberation and collective care. It challenges grind culture and the systems that make rest unequal, not merely the habits of a busy individual. Hersey's political argument is not a staffing study or a productivity technique. It does, however, press a question worth carrying into every shared commitment: whose rest is made possible by the way this good work is organized, and whose is quietly spent to keep it going?

The Calendar Was Full; The Backup Was Blank

At six o'clock each Thursday, the doors open. Guests know there will be a meal and familiar faces. The volunteers have grown adept at setting tables, welcoming arrivals, serving food, and leaving the room ready for its next use. On the program's calendar, every Thursday has a reassuring check mark.

In this illustrative program, dependable service is a real good. People can plan around a promise that keeps being honored. The difficulty appears when a new volunteer asks an ordinary question: “What happens next Thursday if the coordinator is away?”

Someone can cover the serving line. Someone else knows where the plates are kept. But the coordinator confirms the food order on Saturday, checks dietary information, calls when a delivery changes, settles a Wednesday inventory problem, and answers messages that arrive after the room is locked. No one has agreed to take over that work, and no one has authority to approve a smaller menu or a different pickup arrangement. The visible shift has many hands. The invisible preparation has one.

The check marks are not false. The meals were served. They simply answer a narrower question than the one the program needs to ask. They record whether a Thursday happened, not whether another Thursday can happen when one person's life makes a reasonable claim on their time. A service is not yet sustainably designed just because a dedicated person has kept it running.

Notice how easy it is to misread the blank space. A visitor sees a reliable service. A volunteer sees a capable coordinator. A board member sees an unbroken streak. None of those observations reveals whether the coordinator can miss a week without frantic calls or a last-minute loss of essential service. Availability has been mistaken for infrastructure.

The group need not stop celebrating the meals to examine this. It can begin by placing the off-calendar hours beside the Thursday shift, then asking which tasks actually require the coordinator's knowledge and which simply landed there over time. The question is not “Who should try harder?” It is “What would our promise need if the person who usually carries it were absent?”

When Devotion Becomes a Staffing Plan

The coordinator is thanked at every gathering. The thanks are sincere. They are also incapable of placing an order, training a substitute, granting someone decision-making authority, or protecting a planning hour.

Appreciation and support can matter deeply. They should not be confused with an operating plan. A program may admire someone's devotion while continuing to require that person to absorb its every exception. If the only way to keep the promise is to hope that the same person will always answer, the group has assigned risk without naming it.

Nor is this burden distributed equally. People arrive with different access to paid leave, dependable income, help with caregiving, transportation, and the power to decline a request. Some cannot step back without a cost that others never face. The International Labour Organization's care-work report documents unequal patterns of paid and unpaid care across societies. It does not describe this meal program, but it warns against assuming that everyone has the same spare hours to contribute. Hersey's own account of rest as a liberatory practice asks us to look past a person's private choices toward the arrangements that make stopping possible or impossible.

This is why an individual reminder to “take care of yourself” cannot complete the repair. A person cannot recover during a protected evening if the organization still expects them to remain reachable. A volunteer cannot share responsibility for a task they were never trained or authorized to perform. Care becomes credible when it changes the conditions under which people are asked to contribute.

The coordinator may genuinely love this work. That does not make every hour freely available. Commitment is a reason to build a plan that can continue without requiring a person to be perpetually on call. The program's task is not to ask for a more heroic Thursday. It is to turn an admirable promise into a promise people have the means to keep.

Make the Promise Match the People Who Must Keep It

At the next planning meeting, the group draws a week rather than a shift. Saturday ordering, Wednesday checks, Thursday service, and the late calls go on the same page. Each essential task gets a named primary person, a trained backup, and a decision owner who can change scope when capacity is missing. An hour of preparation that used to happen at home becomes part of the schedule. The previously blank part of the calendar begins to acquire names and time.

The group then tests the plan against three weeks: an ordinary week, a week with a delayed delivery, and a week when the coordinator is unavailable. Which promises can be maintained in each? What information does a backup need before the problem appears? A smaller menu might be possible, but only if it meets the program's food-safety, accessibility, and service commitments. Calling an unsafe or inaccessible version “minimum” would not protect anyone. If coverage cannot sustain the essential service, the decision owner must seek resources or make a transparent change rather than conceal the gap with unpaid improvisation.

Two signals belong on the review page. The outward signal is whether guests receive the safe, accessible meal the program promised. The inward signal is whether providing it required uncovered preparation hours, repeated late messages, or emergency substitutions. Neither signal gives the whole account. Together they keep a successful Thursday from erasing the cost of its success.

The group also chooses a stop trigger before the next difficult week. If no trained backup is available for ordering and dietary checks by the planning deadline, the decision owner must act then, not after a volunteer has privately absorbed another night of work. A trigger matters only when somebody has the authority and resources to respond.

A month later, the coordinator takes a Thursday away. The backup follows the shared checklist, and a delayed delivery leads the decision owner to approve the smaller, already-reviewed menu. The doors still open. Guests still receive a safe meal. The coordinator's phone does not ring.

One successful absence cannot prove that every problem has been solved. It can reveal something the uninterrupted calendar concealed: the service did not become weaker when responsibility was shared. Its promise became more honest about what keeping it requires.

The next coordinator will inherit more than a calendar. They will inherit what the group came to call normal: work with backup and a right to revise scope, or a tradition of making every absence feel like a failure. The pace chosen today may become someone else's default tomorrow.

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Practice: The Pace That Can Be Repeated

This practice is designed to help you determine whether a recurring commitment can be kept without relying on invisible, unplanned, or unlimited labor. Its purpose is not to measure anyone's dedication. It is to make the full conditions of dependable service visible, then identify one change that would make the work more sustainable.

Set aside 10 minutes and use the worksheet to:

  1. Choose one recurring commitment. Focus on a responsibility that matters and is expected to continue.

  2. Look beyond the visible event. Consider preparation, follow-up, backup, decision-making, recovery, and the work performed outside the advertised hours.

  3. Compare the promise with the available capacity. Notice where the commitment depends on one person's constant availability, where support is missing, and what signals would show that the current pace is no longer workable.

  4. Choose one practical adjustment. Identify a request, limit, backup arrangement, recovery interval, or change in scope that would make the commitment more repeatable.

  5. Set a review date. Return to the exercise after the change has had time to operate, and evaluate both the service delivered and the capacity it required.

When you finish, you should have a clearer picture of the commitment's hidden demands, an early warning sign to watch, and one concrete step toward sharing the work more responsibly. You may also gain language for discussing capacity without treating exhaustion as a personal failure.

You do not need to disclose private health information to complete this exercise. If the gap involves immediate safety, legal rights, or an essential service at risk, use the appropriate formal escalation now rather than waiting for the review date. If you lack authority to make a change, documenting the constraint and bringing it to a responsible person is still a meaningful step.

Download The Pace That Can Be Repeated worksheet

Scientific Summary

Research can help distinguish a structural question from a purely personal one, but it cannot prescribe a perfect pace for every reader. Kelly and colleagues' 2014 group-randomized study tested a combined change to schedule control and supportive supervision in a single U.S. information-technology workplace. After six months, the intervention group reported modest improvements in work-family conflict and family-time adequacy; the authors found no evidence of increased work hours or perceived job demands. A 2015 analysis by Olson and colleagues examined the same workplace initiative at twelve months. It found about eight additional minutes of measured sleep per day and improved perceived sleep sufficiency, but no improvement on every sleep outcome examined. These linked analyses concern one workplace intervention, not two independent replications or a test of the illustrative meal program.

In a 2024 cross-sectional survey of 220 Italian volunteers, work-home interference related to intentions to leave through cynicism, while the proposed pathway through emotional exhaustion was not supported. Organizational appreciation and task support weakened the observed indirect relationship. Because the variables were surveyed at one time and the outcome was intention, the study cannot establish that support caused people to stay or that volunteers actually departed. The World Health Organization's mental-health-at-work guidelines also include organizational interventions alongside individual supports, although their occupational scope should not be extended to diagnose a volunteer or prescribe treatment.

The bounded conclusion is that the design of a commitment deserves examination alongside the resolve of the people carrying it. Measuring delivery without measuring hidden labor can leave a group unable to tell whether its good work is repeatable. “A promise has to include the conditions of keeping it” is a reflective standard for this post, not an experimentally established formula or a clinical threshold.


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