26.291 – When Justice Loses the Person

October 202626.291 – When Justice Loses the PersonShadowWhen Virtue Becomes IdentityConvergence And DifferenceCommunityDignityHuman Potential
Written By YC

“Accountability is understanding the harm you’ve caused, and doing something to make it right.”

— Howard Zehr, quoted in Randi B. Hagi’s Howard Zehr: Pioneer of restorative justice (2015)

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Dignity

Howard Zehr is a writer, educator, photographer, and practitioner whose work helped shape contemporary restorative justice.

His approach gives particular attention to people harmed by wrongdoing: what they need, what they want understood, and how they can participate in a response. Respect for the dignity of everyone involved is a central concern in his work (Eastern Mennonite University, n.d.). In the interview above, his account of accountability joins understanding with an obligation to act.

That connection opens a question for ordinary community life. When a group rallies around a wrong, it can become fluent in condemnation while remaining uncertain about what would help the person affected. The person may be visible as the reason for everyone’s concern, yet have little influence over its direction. Zehr’s work invites us to keep listening after we have identified something to oppose, so that the response remains connected to the people whose lives it is meant to improve.

The Refund Still Hasn’t Arrived

Imagine a community workshop advertised at thirty dollars. Registration opens, people pay, and a member notices that the checkout charged forty-five. They post the advertised price and their receipt, with personal details covered, in the group’s online forum. Two other attendees check their records and discover the same discrepancy. The post has done something useful: a problem that might have looked like one person’s mistake is now visible to everyone who may have paid.

A second member shares the evidence again, adding a photograph of the organizer with the caption, “Our financial genius strikes again.” Other people join in. Some ask reasonable questions; others supply jokes. Farther down the thread, an attendee writes, “Who should I contact about getting the difference back?” By the time they return that evening, the caption has collected a string of amused responses. Their question still has no answer.

The discrepancy deserves public attention. People are still registering, and anyone charged the wrong amount needs to know. The organizer’s embarrassment does not make the information less necessary. Yet the photograph and caption have added another activity to the correction: turning a person into an object of amusement. That activity can continue quite successfully while the overcharge remains unresolved. People may feel that something decisive has happened because the organizer has been put in their place.

From the attendee’s side of the screen, the situation is less satisfying. Fifteen dollars is missing, and the next step is unclear. Perhaps the amount is manageable; perhaps it affects what they can spend that week. They should not have to explain their finances to establish that the charge matters. They may appreciate the original post and still wish someone would answer them. Those responses can coexist without making them disloyal to the people who spoke up.

We know that the advertised fee and the amount collected differ. We do not yet know whether an old setting, a communication failure, or a deliberate decision produced the charge. An explanation will matter to the review. Meanwhile, someone needs to stop further incorrect charges and establish how refunds will happen. The practical work can begin with the facts already available, without waiting for a complete judgment about the organizer’s character.

This is where a community’s sense of justice can lose contact with a person. The complaint brings people together, but their attention begins moving toward a different outcome. A memorable takedown becomes easier to recognize than an effective response. The person affected remains present in the story while becoming peripheral to the decisions being made in their name.

The Audience Has Its Own Needs

There are good reasons to want others to witness a wrong. A public account can make a hidden pattern visible, help people compare experiences, and prevent a complaint from being quietly dismissed. Recognition also matters in its own right. Someone who has struggled to be believed may need an acknowledgment that reaches the same community that doubted them. An efficient transaction cannot always repair an inaccurate public story.

The audience, however, brings concerns of its own. Members may want reassurance that the group takes fairness seriously. A volunteer may worry about the organization’s reputation. A longtime critic may see confirmation of a problem they have raised before. Each concern can deserve attention, but none tells us everything the attendee needs. A community response becomes harder to direct when these different purposes gather under the single word “accountability.”

In his account of restorative justice, Zehr connects harms with the needs they create and the obligations that follow. He also gives affected people a role in determining the response (Zehr, 2009). That framework comes from work concerned with wrongdoing and justice; it is not a ready-made procedure for every disagreement. Applied to this imagined workshop, it suggests a useful question: whose needs are actually shaping what the group does next?

Someone might say that the organizer needs to learn a lesson. Perhaps changes in responsibility or supervision are warranted. But a lesson for the organizer does not automatically produce an answer for the attendee. The group could spend the evening arguing about an appropriate punishment without identifying the person who can return the money. A judgment about consequences and a practical remedy are connected tasks, each requiring its own attention.

Listening to the attendee may complicate the group’s preferred story. They might want the fee corrected and still intend to attend. Another person might withdraw because trust has been damaged. A third may want an explanation before deciding. These differences need not be sorted into more or less admirable responses. People can share a claim to fair treatment while wanting different things afterward. Making room for those differences keeps the community from assigning everyone the same role in its drama.

Nor does participation mean handing the administrative work back to those overcharged. They should be able to express a need without becoming the refund coordinator, investigator, or public representative for everyone else. Listening carries an obligation for the people with authority to organize a response. Otherwise, the invitation to have a voice becomes another task for the person already carrying the cost.

Who Needs to Know, and Who Can Act?

Once the needs become clearer, the choice of audience becomes more precise. Everyone who encountered the fee discrepancy or may still register needs an accurate notice. The people charged too much need a direct route to repayment. The treasurer needs enough transaction information to identify and correct the charges. The committee needs to understand how the discrepancy arose and whether its process requires revision. One public thread cannot necessarily do all this work well.

Now imagine the treasurer answers the thread, identifies a way to resolve the charge, and invites the attendee to say whether anything else needs attention. The attendee replies privately: “I still want to come. I’d like the difference back, but please don’t use my name in the committee’s update.” The treasurer confirms that the booking will remain in place. The committee removes the attendee’s name from its draft notice, keeping the fee discrepancy and refund information visible.

That exchange sits within a wider response. A visible notice confirms the fee, names the refund contact, and gives a repayment deadline. Where the payment records allow it, the organization identifies affected transactions itself, instead of waiting for every attendee to raise a hand. The committee sets a date to review the registration process and report what it finds. The attendee’s preference has influenced this response without making them responsible for delivering it.

Privacy has a particular job here. The group needs to know that the charge was wrong and that refunds are being handled. It does not need an attendee’s bank details, private messages, or account of financial hardship. A confidential route for those details can coexist with a public record of the error. The correction remains visible, while the person can receive help without becoming an exhibit.

Choosing that route requires attention to who controls it. If the same organizer can ignore the complaint, remove the post, and prevent anyone else from checking the records, a private message may accomplish little. Continuing charges or repeated unanswered requests may justify a wider warning or an independent review. No one has to exhaust a channel that is unsafe or plainly ineffective before seeking another. The audience should be large enough, and sufficiently independent, to do the work the situation requires.

This also changes what it means to remove the mocking caption. A moderator can keep the receipts and unanswered questions visible while asking members to stop circulating the photograph for ridicule. That decision earns credibility when the moderator also secures an answer and protects further reporting. If the only prompt action is the removal of criticism, the group has learned that presentation receives more attention than the underlying problem. The responsibility to address both belongs especially to those who manage the space.

The question about further circulation is therefore practical: what would it add now? While people may still pay too much, a wider warning can protect them. If the organizer obstructs review, an independent route may be needed. Once an accurate notice reaches those concerned and refunds are underway, repeatedly sharing the photograph may add little to either task. Serious consequences can still follow the evidence. A review may establish that someone should lose a role; a correction may need to reach a larger public. The choice of audience remains tied to what people need and what the evidence supports.

When the Remedy Reaches the Person

Return to the attendee a few days later. The fifteen-dollar credit is now in their account, and the workshop booking is still there. The public notice confirms the thirty-dollar fee and the refund process without naming them. Further overcharges have stopped, and the committee has set a date to report on its review. The attendee no longer has to search the thread for a way to get their money back. They can decide how much more attention they want to give the dispute.

The organizer may still owe an explanation. The group may still have difficult questions about responsibility. Trust may take longer to restore than the money, and some people may choose to leave. Those questions can remain open even after a practical need has been met. The attendee can accept repayment without forgiving anyone, praising the committee, or appearing in a public story about how well the community handled its mistake.

A community becomes more capable of justice when it can sustain that kind of attention: hearing the complaint, making the truth visible where it matters, and following the response far enough to learn whether it helped. The person who first asked about the refund no longer has to compete with the conversation conducted on their behalf. Their question has led to action, and they have retained a say in what happens in their name.

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Practice: Choose the Forum That Can Help

Estimated time: 10 minutes.

Choose an ordinary situation in which you are considering how to correct a wrong or respond to a complaint. You can use an imagined example. The objective is to identify who needs information, protection, a practical remedy, or an opportunity to be heard, then connect those needs with people who can act.

The two-page worksheet will guide you through what is established, what you are assuming about others’ needs, and the audiences available. You will consider who holds authority, which details need privacy, and whether a channel is safe and effective. You should finish with a specific next step, a responsible recipient, and a way to check whether the response worked or needs to change.

Private reflection is enough for this exercise. It does not require contacting anyone, disclosing personal information, forgiving, or reconciling. A public correction, formal complaint, wider warning, or firm boundary may be the appropriate next step.

Download Choose the Forum That Can Help Worksheet


Scientific Summary

When a community responds to wrongdoing, it can ask several questions. How do observers judge the response? How do the people directly affected experience it? What happens afterward? These questions call for different kinds of evidence. Approval from onlookers cannot tell us whether a person felt heard, and satisfaction alone cannot tell us whether further harm occurred. The studies below examine different settings and outcomes, helping us distinguish what each result can—and cannot—show.

Sawaoka and Monin (2018) studied judgments of online condemnation across six studies involving 3,377 participants. Participants saw offensive posts and responses to them. An individual commenter was generally judged more negatively when their condemnation appeared among many similar comments than when fewer comments accompanied it. Greater sympathy for the original offender helped account for the difference. These findings concern observers’ impressions of particular online exchanges. They do not show that collective criticism is unjust or that silence benefits the people harmed. Their relevance here is narrower: the wider response can change how one contribution is perceived, even when that contribution’s wording remains the same (Sawaoka & Monin, 2018).

Strang and colleagues (2013) examined different outcomes in a systematic review of ten randomized trials of face-to-face restorative justice conferences. Cases assigned to conferencing had, on average, fewer subsequent convictions—or arrests in one trial—than those assigned to standard criminal justice processing. Victims in the conferencing group also reported greater satisfaction. Participants had consented before random assignment, and the conferencing process used trained facilitators. The analysis included cases that did not complete their assigned process. These conditions matter: the review does not establish that an informal conversation is preferable to public correction, or that someone should meet a person who harmed them (Strang et al., 2013).

The workshop example and accompanying Practice bring these distinct questions into an everyday setting as a reflective exercise, not a tested intervention. Audience reaction deserves attention, while the affected person’s needs, available protection, and practical outcome remain essential to judging what the response accomplishes. The useful habit is to specify the result we are seeking and return to check it.


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