We’ve been sold the myth that purpose is something to find, not something we make. This post dismantles the soulmate-style narrative of purpose and offers a new frame: purpose as seasonal, emergent, and chosen. Inspired by Ne Zha, we explore how alignment—not arrival—is the real fire that frees us.

Healing through service transforms pain into purpose, fostering emotional, physical, spiritual, and neurological well-being. Acts of service, from small kindnesses to global advocacy, strengthen human connection, reduce stress, and inspire resilience. Giving back isn’t an obligation but a powerful act of love that uplifts both the giver and receiver.